Everything we really want in our lives family, friends, relationships, business success or acknowledgment all those things that we want .   " "state of change"  a certain amount of feeling within ourselves.

As Mark Twain said "keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions, small people always do that.  But the really great ones they make you believe that you too can become great."  and that's the kind of person you want to surround yourself with people who believe in you.  They can see you even if they don't understand you when you're trying to build.   

Coaching is the practice of supporting an individual, referred to as a Coachee, through the process of achieving a specific personal or professional result.  

How does this approach compare to other techniques we've used to change behavior?  It is helping a person identify the skills and capabilities within themselves, and enables them to create their own solution process.